One day you are laughing joyfully, and playfully full of expectations for this gem of a child, then one-day, years later, you say, “good afternoon, how was your day?” To your question, you receive a grunt and the usual shoulder shrug. This once sweet child heads to the refrigerator and then to their room, for which they shut the door with the expectation of you staying out. This uncomplicated relationship has just turned very high maintenance.

Take a few moments and think about what your goal is for parenting. How well are you reaching your goal? As long as your child is still in your home then there is a chance for change. Listed below are several ways you can begin to make changes.